Today, us ladies are going to have breakfast and lunch on a luxurious yacht ride with our kids and just take in the Miami life."Banathi, come on. We need to go. Hai bo!" I tell him. I don't even know what's taking him so long. I've bathed him. I've lotioned him. I've clothed him. Knowing Banathi, he is causing chaos somewhere in this house.He finally comes with a bag full of stuff."And then?" I ask him."It’s toys for me, Mohale...
Shaka didn’t come to bed last night. From what I understand, none of the men came to bed last night. I managed to sleep. I had Ruri and Khabane sleep with me just to give Maboko and Teboho some space to talk. Khabane is at that age where he records everything and spews it to the next person. So, they need to regroup and I offered to take the babies. We slept well, shame. I missed Mason so much, but...
I'm waking up next to my wife this morning. She's fast asleep and I just watch her sleep and breathe. She's so beautiful. She's so strong and yet so soft at the same time. She's possibly carrying my child and I'm so happy. I have no regrets about marrying Oluremi Warona Mohale. I'd marry her over and over again any time and any day.Mohale insisted on sleeping here with us. We would have probably had married night sex, but Mohale...
Zee and I are at Shaka's and Refiloe's place. Khotso decided that he wants a shotgun wedding and now everyone is just busy being busy. Shaka and Zee are quite close. I see the fondness in Zee when he talks about Shaka. I think he looks at Shaka and takes him as the father he needed when he was growing up after his parents died. It's just such a pity that my husband is being raised in the criminal life....
Today, I'm having one of those days. I woke up missing Mason and I haven't stopped crying since I woke up. Today is also Ruri's birthday party. It was held back by six months because of Mason's death. I thought I'd be strong enough to run after kids today, serve them and watch them just be kids. But I've been staring at my son's picture since I woke up and I just cannot stop crying."Sis'Fifi", I hear Luhle's voice.I don't...
Today is Kamva's birthday and naturally, Neli is throwing a birthday party for her. Let me tell you… we fought! Yoh, my sisters and I FOUGHT throughout the planning of this birthday party and I'm not even sure if my girls and I should attend this damn party.So let me catch you up on what happened…Neli came to Noni and I and informed us that she was having a birthday party for Kamva because Kamva is turning ten. INFORMED. Then,...
Today was a long day. Mason's funeral was sad. Very sad. His school choir was the one that was singing and Refiloe couldn't hold back a single tear throughout the service.Teboho MC-ed the service. It was a beautiful service. Children were there in uniform. His teachers spoke so beautifully about him. And when his coffin went into the ground, the school choir sang so beautifully and white doves were released every five minutes until the coffin was completely underground.We all...
I always knew that my marriage to Ona would be more about duty than it would be about love. You don't marry a man like that and think like an average woman. My time to be in love and be by this man's side because I love him has reached its end. Now, the truth about my marriage kicks in. To prove it, I slept in the bed with Mohale and Tholoana - after having to explain to Mohale that...
Mason is away with his mother and Shaka. Olu has gone back to her place because she is preparing the house to be accommodative of Khotso being on a wheelchair. She is busy replacing her staircases with ramps and just making the place wheelchair friendly. She even changed one of her toilets - the one that she and Khotso use - to a lower toilet that Khotso can use while on the wheelchair.I’m not sure if she has forgiven Khotso...
"With Khotso down for the next couple of months, I've been asked to step up. So I'll be working a lot more hours.""And leaving me with two babies all alone."He looks at me."Babe, do you want me to maybe ask Nothile to come down and help us?" He suggests."No, it's fine. I can manage my kids. I just feel like my life has paused. There's absolutely nothing going on in my life except being a mother. The only adult interactions...
