So, Thabi is a bit of a bitch. She's really trying to show me who Ona's wife is and she's making sure that Ona treats me like a dirty secret. What disappoints me the most is that Ona is letting her make him do this. I'm extremely annoyed and I'm actually at a point where I'm thinking that perhaps I should just be single for a while and enjoy my life as it is. Imagine being played by a...
I don't know how Mashimane is. I really don't. He is a bit lost without Fifi. It is as if he is waiting for someone to give him an instruction before he moves. When we ask him for anything, he phones Fifi first and discusses it with her. Then he gets back to us. He is worried about Fifi and he hates that he cannot be there with her because he is here preparing to bury Nompumelelo. Then he...
It is 10pm and we are on the road. We have to be in Merementse by 2am so we can sleep and get Shaka ready to go and negotiate lobola for Ona with Thabi's family.I have offered to drive and Shaka is treating me like I'm driving with a Learner sign on the back of my car. I can actually drive. He just has issues with just sitting and being a passenger. He needs to relax. Luhle is sitting...
"Mommy, you and daddy promised we would go on holiday. We still haven't gone." Khabane says to me.Maboko and I are sitting on the couch. Our TV is off. It generally is because our kids are loud. Since Ruri started talking, it's a mess. When the TV is on, it's as if they compete with the TV for the noise award and I'm getting old now. My nerves can only take so much noise.Ruri - the daddy's girl -...
“Why didn’t you tell me that your parents want you to divorce me?” He asks me. He is so sad. This is exactly why I never wanted him to hear wind of this and this is exactly why I kept my parents away from me, my husband and my child. Now they’ve showed up here unannounced and caused drama.“Because I don’t want to divorce you. Because I love you and I had cut them off for even making that...
Zithulele and I have been all over each other since early this morning. Yep, this is what your life becomes when you become parents. You have to have sex when the kids are sleeping or behind their backs. You move from fearing your parents busting your ass in the air to fearing your children busting your ass in the air.It took us forever to get both kids out of our bed and out of our room. But they are...
I'm in Tholoana Kingdom with Khosini and Khanya. I dragged them here and they have just not been very charmed with me. It turns out that Nathi ditched spending time with them to go on a weekend away with his new girlfriend. They are hurt and for whatever reason, I'm the person getting the bad treatment. Ona bought me a house here. It's in a very nice suburb. I wouldn't have minded having stayed in Fikile's apartment, but I'm thankful...
"Girl, you want to be with those Mohales after all this drama that's going on?" I ask Thandeka.We are in my office and she's telling me a story and a half because she needs to go to Tholoana Kingdom for the next month."I have to make sure that I get my things straight. And whether the Mohales want to deal with me or not, Ona and I share a child. And Kea is the only one who seems to...
So, I'm a mother to a daughter too. I'm so excited. I'm so fulfilled. And with three kids occupying my time now, I don't think I'll have more kids.Khotso is the most excited to be a father to a daughter. It is so beautiful. Wow. He loves her and I love how he loves her. Ona too. Lefatselabarena is a love story rewriting itself on our lives. My boys have been sleeping with Refiloe and Shak. I have no issues...
"You have to speak to the twins, Maboko. Their mother's business is out there and I get it. But we need them to play ball in all of this. Zithulele, I need you to go with Maboko and you guys need to convince them to get them to cooperate with us again." I say.Only Tlali and Zithulele met up with Maboko and I after the scheduled 30minutes I had set up for everyone.They agree, but I think they also...
