Episode 19

We’ve been in Tholoana Kingdom for a ceremony for my grandkids - it's crazy saying this out loud. Yoh. But they are beautiful babies and I love them to bits. Thomas and I had planned to stay at a hotel, but the Mohales insisted we stay at the royal house. There's an entire wing for guests here. When I was with Khotso, I never even came to this side of the palace. I'm avoiding Khotso at all costs. I even...

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Episode 18

One Year Later…The last year has been crazy. I don't even know where to start. Let's start with that social climbing uncouth hoodrat, Khosi. That bitch joined a reality show because well, she's Khosi. She started talking shit about us and trust me when I say she went in on Thuli's and Tee-le's relationship. Tee-le ended up opening a case against her and the show itself so she got fired and the show had to publicly apologize to every person who was mentioned on that...

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Episode 17

Boys’ Night!Tonight, we are throwing Leruo a mother of bachelor parties. He is taking on a second wife - a dream for many men, I tell you... having two FINE women to choose from every night and they actually don't mind. Imagine if I could keep both Thuli and Ndalo in my life. It would be perfect. I'd even buy them each their own houses and cars. Then I just decide where I'm sleeping for the night. But I had...

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Episode 16

Tee-le and I arrive in Sebokeng at 20H30. His mom is not happy at all about us travelling at night, but we explain that we had to stop at a friend's place because the friend had lost a child. Tee-le's mother shouted at us for traveling at night then went on and on about me being careful regarding where I eat. She also said I cannot go to the funeral. I am pregnant and pregnant women do not go to...

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Episode 15

Tee-le is away on training for the country's squad now that the world cup is dawning upon us. He has been doing extremely well with his rehabilitation and now that he is playing his last few games (as he plans to retire after the world cup) he wants to give it his all. He will be back tomorrow and I am looking forward to him coming home. I miss him so much. I also need to go see my gynae today...

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Episode 14

Phathudi is visiting us for the weekend. He is here to see Phatsima. I do not want him here and I do not believe that he wants to be around me. He wanted to bring his new girlfriend with him and I told him that my place is not a hotel. He thinks I am jealous. I think he is stupid. He keeps reminding me that he will not help me with school fees. I never asked him to. I was...

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Episode 13

“Nice digs”, he says as he looks around the house. Nene took Phatsima and Zoe out for ice-cream when Uyanda arrived. I feel like I have two kids now. Zoe is a bit more maintenance than I expected. “Thanks. Would you like to sit down?” I ask him. “Sure”, he says. We make our way to the couch. We sit on one couch. He holds my hand. “I’m so sorry about how I have been treating you lately.” He begins. “What has been going on...

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Episode 12

It has been two weeks since Tee-le has been visiting the land of the dead. The good news is that he woke up yesterday morning. Renay and I have been religiously going to see him at every morning and evening visiting hour. I was happy to be by his side when he opened his eyes. I think he was happy to have me there too because his first word was “Thuli”. He will still be in hospital for a while longer...

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Episode 11

The game drive, the squash fitness sessions in the mornings, swimming afternoons and lots of diet-compliant food for Leruo; that's how we holiday. Dololo spa days I tell you. Now, we are packing the car and getting ready to head back home. These holidays are mostly for Leruo and Fenya. When  I want chill-out time, it has to be a girls’ trip or a solo vacation. Our weeklong holiday has come to an end and I had fun with my boys. We all...

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Episode 10

"Mphathi wami", I say as I walk into Mthunzi's office. I walked to his side of the building. Within this village our offices are in - the NIR village - Mthunzi is the CEO of the financial services pillar of the business. He and his team sit in their own building. Thomas heads the Technology pillar of the business and he has his own building where he sits with his team. I head the brand and communications pillar and I...

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