Things have been weird between my wife and I. Ever since she told me that she feels like she comes second to Lydia's memory, I haven't been okay because clearly, I need to go and analyse the kind of husband that I am.. do some soul-searching and try to do better. I didn't go to Venda with Rofhiwa and her kids. I have to choose my wife and how she feels in this regard. Rofhiwa didn't take it well at all....
I'm hiding in my closet. I'm lying down on the couch that's in here. I'm here for peace. I'm here for a break. I have my eyes closed and I'm listening to India Arie's Moved By Youthrough my headsets. My headsets are removed from my ears. I open my eyes. My delicious husband is smiling down at me. I smile at him. "Are you alright?" He asks me. I sit up, giving him space to sit next to me. He sits down, brings my...
Thabi has not said a word since her boyfriend died. As in, she is just silent. When you speak to her, she just looks at you. If she agrees with you, she nods her head. If she does not agree to something, she shakes her head. If she doesn’t know, she shrugs her shoulders. She has legit gone mute! I wasn't there when he was killed, but I can imagine that it wasn't pleasant. What I don't understand is why...
"Good morning", I greet her with a kiss. The sun is bouncing off her skin so beautifully. She is perfect. How does the king not love this woman whole heartedly? "Uyanda, I want to sleep. You kept me up all night." She says.I laugh and say, "That’s what happens when the most beautiful woman in the world sleeps and wakes up next to me." She smiles. Her smile makes my heart sing. She yawns then stretches her arms. I smile as I watch her do...
We have moved into a new house in Gauteng - Hyde Park. It's close to Fifi's and Rea's house. They helped us move in and unpack because... well... how do I put this? Tee-le knocked me up again and Khumo is still on her way to two years old. I was on contraceptives and he still got me pregnant. I was first angry, but now I'm just wrapping my head around it. I'm grateful that we are not struggling financially....
It's my favourite time of the year. It's Christmas. It's family time. It's time for my family and I to just love each other. This year, I took us to our family Christmas gift that I have been working on for the past three years. I bought land in Atlanta and started building our family holiday house there. I had it furnished, with Koena's assistance because we all know that I'm not that hot when it comes to furnituring or...
I'm in my office right now putting in a million hours of work because this weekend, we are in KZN for Mthunzi's mother's wedding. This year has honestly been a busy year. Next year is going to be just as hectic because Khanyi goes to university. I was so scared that she'd tell me that she's going to Tholoana Kingdom because of Teboho's and Maboko's son. But she said she wants to keep her options open. To be honest, I've...
I'm going to watch the NFR Legends play today. My beautiful wife and I received an invitation to today's game. But unfortunately, I will have to go alone because our daughter is still too small to leave her mother's side right now. Thuli has never been in support of having a nanny. We struggled a lot with Khumo. She was a screamer - not even a crier. My wife was overwhelmed and I was travelling a lot for work. But...
Zari, Fifi, Khanyi and I are in Fifi's kitchen preparing breakfast for the men we love. We have set up a playpen for Fifi's twins and my Khumo. They are actually making a noise and having a full-blown baby language conversation amongst the three of them. "Girl, a whole set of twins? You are brave", Zari says to Fifi. "We are waiting for you and Ona now. We've done our part - two of the best." Fifi says. "Are you planning to have...
Fenya is with Tshianeo, Dikwe's second wife. Leruo and I need to talk. Seriously talk. I'm cooking and he's texted me to tell me he's on his way. I've been seeing Paula everyday this entire week, talking and really understanding the beast I'm dealing with here. I'm finally ready to confront Leruo.I feel his arms wrap around my waist from behind as he kisses my neck. Usually, I'd love him back and give as much as I get. But not...
