It is only 2pm and I’m already bushed. I’ve been in meetings all morning and I’ve been reviewing contracts since 12pm. I haven’t even eaten, and I don’t feel hungry. I spoke to Ntuthuko once or twice today just to check in. He’s still at my place and I’m actually enjoying having him around. We fight from time to time, but I fall more and more in love with him each day. This may sound arrogant, but I think he...
I am at Bassie’s place. Yoh, her and Keith are at war EVERY DAY! We try to keep them apart because Bassie blames Keith for everything and she kicks him out every day, telling him that she wants her child back. Keith is determined that he’s not going back to Noria and that he loves Bassie. I honestly have no advice for either of them. I left my kids with my mom and Meme back home. Apparently, Mmaletuka is out on bail. She...
Keith’s family is having a family meeting today for Michael and Masingita - Keith’s eldest brother and his wife. I’m at my mom’s house with Risuna and mzala. Firstly, I’m not Keith’s wife, so I can’t just be next door as and when I please. My mom reminds me every chance she gets. Phela, Keith wanted me to be next door to help Charity to cook and prepare for the meeting. Charity is Samuel’s wife - the other brother. My mom...
Today, the Maphumulo family is coming over to make right what the Twalas did wrong by paying lobola for me. Now that Senzi’s surname has officially changed, we can proceed with our traditional part of the wedding. I’m most surprised by how open-minded Senzi is to cultural practices. He is a church boy through and through - hell, a whole senior pastor. There’s a part of me that’s also not shocked because every time I’ve had to tell him about...
Schools are now on midterm break. Wandi and Rena decided that Rena and Moloko will be going to visit Wandi for the week. Wandi phoned me then Rena nagged me. When I told Khotso, he laughed. Then they mentioned that Senzi is flying again, so he will be around for about two days then be on the road. He’s excited to see them, but he’s even more excited that they’ll be keeping Wandi busy while he’s away. “What about your studies?...
I orgasm for the seventh time this morning. Ntuthuko Maphumulo definitely knows how to look after a woman… I can see how he made all of these kids that he has all over the place. We are leaving the lodge today and we have to be checked out by 10am. It’s 6am now and we barely slept. We just started having sex the night of Morafe’s wedding and we only come out for food and to use the toilet. Everyone left...
I fell asleep on Thabang’s chest. It was the only way he could calm me down. I couldn’t even breathe last night. Mmaletuka has honestly lost me as a sister, and I will NOT drop the charges. She will rot in jail! And I’m not taking any of her kids to raise them. My mother is upset with me. She says I cannot get married with my sister behind bars. But my sister attacked me in front of everyone and she said...
We are at Morafe’s house. Morafe is fighting with her sister, so we are only going to her home tomorrow - a day before the actual wedding. Her mother is upset about it, but thina we are more than enjoying being reunited again. And Morafe’s house is NICE! When Senzi came to drop Wandi off, he took Keith back to his father’s house with him. He was here with that shady brother of his. He better not corrupt my man. Please! Wandi’s mom came...
Senzi and I are leaving KZN today. My mom let us use her Maserati to travel. It’s so comfortable and we both enjoy it so much. Bab’Khotso said Senzi and I should keep the car and that he will buy another car for my mother. I actually looked at Senzi and told him to take notes. That’s what a husband does. He just laughed. We leave Mtubatuba at 6am because I want to go to Gateway in Durban first. I want...
Khotso, Moloko and Rena have unofficially moved into my house. I don’t mind at all, if I’m being honest. I know things are weird between them and Thabi because Rena keeps showing Thabi flames and Thabi is upset that Khotso does not call Rena to order. What I appreciate about them all being here is that Rena actually acknowledges me as the mother in this house. She has her ways, but she listens to me. Like last week… I’m trying...
