Tee-le, Khumo and I are driving back home from the mall. We decided to watch a 6pm movie because Khumo forced us to. It was actually such a nice evening. We watched the movie in a Prestige cinema. Tee-le fell asleep, so it was just Khumo and I watching the film. "Baby, what are those?" I ask, looking ahead and noticing road works, getting a bad feeling at the same time. "Road works". "They weren't there when we were driving to the cinema."...
Khabane and I are driving to Mohato's and Zarinah's wedding. We started at his home and parked my car, then took one of his dad's cars - some Lamborghini. His dad said he would have never given Khabane that car if I were not there with him. Lol! Khabane and I are in the Lamborghini while Khabane's parents are following us in the Mercedes-Benz AMG. That car is... yoh! I would have liked for Khabane to take that one. It has no...
Things have been weird between my wife and I. Ever since she told me that she feels like she comes second to Lydia's memory, I haven't been okay because clearly, I need to go and analyse the kind of husband that I am.. do some soul-searching and try to do better. I didn't go to Venda with Rofhiwa and her kids. I have to choose my wife and how she feels in this regard. Rofhiwa didn't take it well at all....
I'm hiding in my closet. I'm lying down on the couch that's in here. I'm here for peace. I'm here for a break. I have my eyes closed and I'm listening to India Arie's Moved By Youthrough my headsets. My headsets are removed from my ears. I open my eyes. My delicious husband is smiling down at me. I smile at him. "Are you alright?" He asks me. I sit up, giving him space to sit next to me. He sits down, brings my...
Thabi has not said a word since her boyfriend died. As in, she is just silent. When you speak to her, she just looks at you. If she agrees with you, she nods her head. If she does not agree to something, she shakes her head. If she doesn’t know, she shrugs her shoulders. She has legit gone mute! I wasn't there when he was killed, but I can imagine that it wasn't pleasant. What I don't understand is why...
"Good morning", I greet her with a kiss. The sun is bouncing off her skin so beautifully. She is perfect. How does the king not love this woman whole heartedly? "Uyanda, I want to sleep. You kept me up all night." She says.I laugh and say, "That’s what happens when the most beautiful woman in the world sleeps and wakes up next to me." She smiles. Her smile makes my heart sing. She yawns then stretches her arms. I smile as I watch her do...
We have moved into a new house in Gauteng - Hyde Park. It's close to Fifi's and Rea's house. They helped us move in and unpack because... well... how do I put this? Tee-le knocked me up again and Khumo is still on her way to two years old. I was on contraceptives and he still got me pregnant. I was first angry, but now I'm just wrapping my head around it. I'm grateful that we are not struggling financially....
It's my favourite time of the year. It's Christmas. It's family time. It's time for my family and I to just love each other. This year, I took us to our family Christmas gift that I have been working on for the past three years. I bought land in Atlanta and started building our family holiday house there. I had it furnished, with Koena's assistance because we all know that I'm not that hot when it comes to furnituring or...
I'm in my office right now putting in a million hours of work because this weekend, we are in KZN for Mthunzi's mother's wedding. This year has honestly been a busy year. Next year is going to be just as hectic because Khanyi goes to university. I was so scared that she'd tell me that she's going to Tholoana Kingdom because of Teboho's and Maboko's son. But she said she wants to keep her options open. To be honest, I've...
I'm going to watch the NFR Legends play today. My beautiful wife and I received an invitation to today's game. But unfortunately, I will have to go alone because our daughter is still too small to leave her mother's side right now. Thuli has never been in support of having a nanny. We struggled a lot with Khumo. She was a screamer - not even a crier. My wife was overwhelmed and I was travelling a lot for work. But...
